I got into botanical art because of my mother. The fact that this website exists starts with her. Every year when I was young, Mummy always ordered an RHS Desk Diary. These had botanical illustrations at periodic intervals throughout the year. We were both intrigued by them and loved the illustrations of flowers, fruit and vegetables- particularly those by Redoute. Every year I looked forward to seeing her new one to see what new pleasures would be inside. Over time, once the diary was finished, plates were removed and inserted into frames and hung on the wall. She also enjoyed art and I remember artwork she did for her local Women's Institute involving plants from every season. She was also very encouraging about my own artistic endeavours. Then there was her love of plants and gardening and visiting gardens. As an adult, I lived in London and she continued to live in Cheshire. Most of my visits to her involved very long visits to plant centres, planting the garden and even longer visits to various gardens near her home in Cheshire. Latterly, as we both became less mobile together, we became very appreciative of gardens on the level - and rollators! Nowadays I'm rather less mobile and mother (in her late seventies) is even less so. For those who like visiting gardens but have difficulty walking, Tatton is an excellent place to visit as it provides electric wheelchairs of the sort you see many older people now using to do their shopping. Mother whizzed around gravel paths and on and off grassy banks in one - she even managed the steep slope at the side of the Italian gardens! Fortunately I managed to persuade her to sharpen all my pencils for me before she started getting too ambitious! I liked the way she always called plants by their correct Latin names and I now wander around gardens and identify plants as I go with names which just pop into my head. My knowledge of most of them can only come from listening to her over very many years. As she became older and more arthritic, we devised new ways to garden at her home to take account of her mobility. I ran around uprooting weeds, pruning and generally licking the garden into better shape while she she sat in one spot filling the garden rubbish bin and making me cups of tea! I saw her in June and spent some of my time moving all her big plant pots around so she had the best view of all the plants which were blooming just beyond the huge sliding windows which provided her with such an excellent view of her garden. (She was tickled pink when my sketch of her garden (see below) was given the double page spread introducing section 2 "Deciding what to draw" in my book about sketching!) Last Thursday I phoned her, as I've been doing every day in recent times as she has been very poorly for some time. Given she lived on her own, she and I both knew exactly why I was ringing.... I told her about where I was - RHS Hyde Hall in Essex - and what I could see from where I was sat. Plus how I'd passed the test of trying to walk up the slope to the top of the hill which I was really pleased about. She was terrific at providing me with support over the phone while I endured my 12 weeks indoors on one leg after my ankle fusion surgery in January. We chatted about some practical matters which needed sorting and I told her that my cousin's husband would be along later in the afternoon to sort out an item which needed fixing. We got home just after six o-'clock home and I had just sat down when the phone rang - and Mike told me she had gone. It was a shock but not a surprise. She went to sleep forever sometime between 2.30 when I last spoke to her and 5.30pm when Mike arrived. She was sat in her chair looking out over her garden, retaining both her independence and dignity after having resolved a very long time ago never ever to go to a care home or hospital. Importantly it was absolutely exactly how she wanted to go - with absolutely no fuss. I'd call it a very good death. I'm so very pleased for her that she got exactly what she wanted. I shall so miss talking with her every morning. I'm so very grateful for all the memories I have - and I'm so glad that she introduced me to botanical art and illustration. I wonder how many others also started botanical art because of an important person in their life in the past.
17/7/2022 04:08:04 pm
What a beautiful tribute Katherine … you nailed it! How glorious to celebrate not only one’s mother but the reason behind a passion which is part of your heart and soul … just as she is. 17/7/2022 04:22:27 pm
So sorry to hear about your mother, mine has gone too. I miss her, a great gardener and soul mate. I got into botanical art when my grandmother died. She left me a book of wild flowers she had painted in Dorset in the 1930's. I used to copy them all the time.
Cynthia Freese
17/7/2022 04:42:37 pm
Lovely.
Deborah
17/7/2022 04:55:48 pm
I am so very sorry for your loss and thankful that you shared your story and the way your mother has contributed not only to your botanical education but also to the one of all your readers. Using Merrit Malloy words, people die but love doesn’t. She would advise to give love away, but you can instead paint love. I hug you in your loss. 17/7/2022 05:25:28 pm
The history of your mother is very nice, happily she ended her life in the best conditions.
Laura Silburn
17/7/2022 05:40:24 pm
So sorry to hear about your mother, she sounds like an amazing lady. I bet she was super proud of everything you've done. I get my love of plants from my mum too and thank her for it every day. How different our lives might have been without them to share their interests with us. Your mum lives on in all you do xxx
Elizabeth YP
17/7/2022 08:48:10 pm
So very sorry for your loss, losing a parent is so very hard. Somehow we think they will always be there.
Marcia Hughes
17/7/2022 09:09:28 pm
Oh Katherine , your words are so beautiful , my words fail me. I haven't been in touch for a while, dratted health issues, but, I kept up with your progress during your gruelling recovery , it would seem your beloved mother was waiting for you to be over the worst before leaving. She was obviously a very determined lovely lady." Like mother like daughter "
Christine
18/7/2022 12:14:08 am
Deepest sympathies for the loss of your wonderful mother Katherine. She sounds like she was a remarkable and loving person. 18/7/2022 08:24:04 am
Oh Katherine, so sorry to hear this, condolences to you! Thanks for sharing your feelings. My history of passion for botanical art is also connected with my dear people, my grandmother and mother. XX 18/7/2022 08:46:27 am
Dear Katherine ,So sorry for you for the loss of your beloved mother . It's wonderful that her passing was peaceful and exactly what she and you would have wished for , whilst looking out over her beautiful garden on a glorious July afternoon. I love your drawing of her garden. Thank you for sharing these precious memories with us . Sincerest condolences x
Elaine Allison
18/7/2022 09:30:20 am
So sorry to hear of your loss. I understand it leaves a huge space in your life. My mother died 32 years ago and I still miss her and her love of plants. So big hugs and maybe do something special each day when you would usually call her. 18/7/2022 10:16:37 am
Hi Katherine, I am so sorry to hear that your mother has gone, but its soothing to hear that her last hours were spent immersed in her lovely garden, which held memories of her love for her plants and very importantly her family. 18/7/2022 10:22:53 am
A beautiful and touching story about your relationship with your mother Katherine. So nice to hear how she influenced you and what it meant for both of you. I recall those diaries and can certainly relate to a mothers influence. I’m sure she was very proud of all that you do. Take care x
Christine Doyle
18/7/2022 11:34:59 am
Dear Katherine, Thank you for sharing this story of your mother with everyone. I loved it. It is so heart felt and beautiful. You obviously had a very enduring and loving relationship, and I bet she felt just as strongly about you as you did about her. I love that drawing of your mother's garden too. I have the book and it's one of my favourite pages. Maybe Marcia, above, is right and your mother waited until she thought you were well on the mend before going.
Ailsa Dooley
18/7/2022 02:59:42 pm
Dear Katherine, 22/7/2022 12:55:38 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss in your Mum, my heart goes out to you! A wonderful story to share. Makes me want to go chat with my Mum this morning. 25/7/2022 12:06:58 pm
Many thanks for all your kind comments - which have given me a new perspective on the loss of my mother. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and appreciation.
Deborah Lambkin
5/9/2022 07:26:46 pm
Dear Katherine Comments are closed.
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